Sunday, November 2, 2008

Talking about sex

Some of the sexual pressures that college freshmen typically face are trying to find out what is normal to do and what is expected. Most freshmen that I know are having sex and it does not seem to be weird or taboo. If I gave advice to people one or two years younger then me I would tell them do what you feel is right for you and do not let other people make your decisions for you.
I think that the rules for dating should start off casual with just dates here and there to get to know each other. I think dinner is a good date, but going to the movies for the first few dates is a no-no because you cannot talk. I think it is good to find out information about someone before you go out because you do not want to put yourself in a bad situation. I think what is typical is looking on the other persons myspace/facebook page.
Dating is a complicated topic because there are many things going on at once and its good to keep them in order.